The stories and musings of a former homeschool mom and one-time missionary and pastor’s wife.

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  • My ex-husband’s wife suddenly and unexpectedly died. Most of you who know or follow me know that I went through a general hell for the entirety of my marriage, spanning from 1994 to 2018, when two years of separation mercifully ended in divorce. If you are new, you can read…

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  • In Name Only

    In Name Only

    Had I been raised to be nominal, I would likely still be in the church.

  • Lunch with Two Men

    Lunch with Two Men

    The day I went to lunch with two men – neither my significant other and one of them married – felt to me like a…

  • Lesson From the Lake

    Lesson From the Lake

    My experiences in Girl Scouts are some of the best memories of my childhood. And Girl Scout Camp was one of my favorite times of…

  • Why I Finally Left the Church

    Why I Finally Left the Church

    I chose to speak rather than silently submit to the misogynistic nonsense.

About Me

Hi. I’m Stephanie, the author behind this blog. At one time, my highest goal was to serve the Lord. That Lord was the god I had been trained to believe was the god of the universe. The god that Christians say was presented in the form of Jesus of Nazareth. There was no greater goal in my denomination’s worldview than to be a missionary, and I felt that I was called from age fifteen. In obedience to that call, I was educated, trained, and became a missionary, pastor’s wife, and homeschool mom. Through the decades, I have come to some very different understandings of theology, humanity, and myself than those that idealistic and easily led teenage girl believed. Here, I write my thoughts about the impact my past beliefs had on me and my family and my observations of how those beliefs influence the world in which we all live.

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