Tag: Christianity

  • My 2023 interview with the Harmonic Atheist, Tim Mills
  • Resources I Have Loved

    Resources I Have Loved

    Early in my journey out of the church, I was still a stay-at-home-mom. In those days I read an average of a book a week and preferred bound books and had several shelves full. After starting work full-time and commuting, I shifted to audio books and podcasts. Some of those books from my early deconstruction…

  • Beaches Bodies and Elisabeth Elliot

    Beaches Bodies and Elisabeth Elliot

    As the equatorial sun toasted their skin, they walked, not schlepped: some with canes or strollers, others with toddlers on their hips or lovers on their arms.

  • Caleb’s Story: Healing

    Caleb’s Story: Healing

    (Part 5. New readers can click here to start at the beginning of the story.) Caleb was gesturing and speaking with an urgency that made me immediately regret making him wait to tell me. As I reached out to hug and reassure him, I wished that there was someone there to hug and reassure me.…

  • Caleb’s Story: Eyes Opening

    Caleb’s Story: Eyes Opening

    (Part 4. New readers can click here to start at the beginning of the story.) During Caleb’s high school years, I kept busy with homeschooling, Caleb’s vocal training, and my kids’ local theater involvement on top of my church volunteer work. But my mind was still churning because a bumper crop of national church and…

  • Caleb’s Story: The Light Faded From His Eyes

    Caleb’s Story: The Light Faded From His Eyes

    (Part 2. New readers can click here to start at the beginning of the story.) Since I was a serious kid, I held tightly to the church and, as someone riddled with anxieties, held tightly to the assurances the church gave me. It is funny to me now that I recognize just how many of…

  • Pro-life Apostate

    Pro-life Apostate

    Though I was once ardently anti-abortion, my views have shifted. As I dared to step outside of evangelical dogma, I allowed myself to study things I would have never studied while still under the gaze of authoritarian preachers. When a person does that, they quickly learn that their preachers and teachers are not always completely…

  • In Name Only

    In Name Only

    Had I been raised to be nominal, I would likely still be in the church.

  • Lunch with Two Men

    Lunch with Two Men

    The day I went to lunch with two men – neither my significant other and one of them married – felt to me like a day that warranted a gold medal. That may sound a bit hyperbolic to some but hear me out. As a former evangelical, I spent most of my life in very…