The stories and musings of a former homeschool mom and one-time missionary and pastor’s wife.

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  • My ex-husband’s wife suddenly and unexpectedly died. Most of you who know or follow me know that I went through a general hell for the entirety of my marriage, spanning from 1994 to 2018, when two years of separation mercifully ended in divorce. If you are new, you can read…

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  • The Girl in the Plane

    The Girl in the Plane

    I have many vivid memories of my early years. Images of my dad’s banjo and how tan his arms looked against his white tee shirt…

  • Why I Write

    Last fall a reader asked me, “Why do you write? I mean, what is your purpose?” And I had a couple of answers ready for…

  • A Hornworm Kind of Love

    A Hornworm Kind of Love

    Humans are admittedly a bit complicated. The same person can be hateful with some and the most loving individual with others. Some people have what…

  • Weigh Down Before There Was Weigh Down

    Weigh Down Before There Was Weigh Down

    In retrospect, it really isn’t surprising that I fell for Gwen Shamblin’s Weigh Down Workshop diet. In my family of origin, thinness was next to…

About Me

Hi. I’m Stephanie, the author behind this blog. At one time, my highest goal was to serve the Lord. That Lord was the god I had been trained to believe was the god of the universe. The god that Christians say was presented in the form of Jesus of Nazareth. There was no greater goal in my denomination’s worldview than to be a missionary, and I felt that I was called from age fifteen. In obedience to that call, I was educated, trained, and became a missionary, pastor’s wife, and homeschool mom. Through the decades, I have come to some very different understandings of theology, humanity, and myself than those that idealistic and easily led teenage girl believed. Here, I write my thoughts about the impact my past beliefs had on me and my family and my observations of how those beliefs influence the world in which we all live.

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